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Sunday, June 14, 2015

Keeping it Reel: Shawshank Redemption



We are starting  fun new series called Keeping it Reel. Its about living what we believeliving like Christ. As we move through this series were going to be talking about the different tenants of a life in Christforgiveness, reconciliation, sacrifice, inclusion, and justice.  And well see parts of different movies that help us see what that looks like in real terms.  Today we are starting with something basicif we are going to live like Jesus, we have to put our old sinful ways behind us, and be loving, kind and forgivingand that starts with one another in the church. 

Our first movie is Shawshank Redemptionwhich is probably not the movie that would first come to mind for many of usits about Shawshank prison and a couple of the inmates there.  Its not a Christian community. They arent committed to following Jesus or living differently. But there is one inmate Andy Dufraine, who lives in such a way that he stands out among the others.  He lives with kindness, thoughtfulness, and selflessness, even under the worst circumstances-false imprisonment dealing with all of the atrocities one might experience in prison. 


In a lot of ways, the thrust of this passage is pretty straight forward. It seems like it might hardly be worth our timeI mean, its not like theres a hidden secret meaning or something. Its directbe good to each other and leave any of your bad habits or sinful ways in the past. 

            We can all be on board with that, right?  So then why is it worth our time?  Well, for these simple reasons:
1)       People are peopleno matter the country or the century. 
2)       Living the life of Christ doesnt come naturally.

            What I mean is this: the book of Ephesians was written as a letter to the church in Ephesus in the first century.  And even nearly 2000 years later, we in the church still struggle with the same kind of issues.  People are people. We are sinful and broken and even when we want to be like Jesus it can be hard.  And we need to remember to love, be kind, and forgive. 

            And yes, even Christians need those reminders.  We arent here because we are perfect. Were here because we know we need help getting it right.  And it matters that we get it right together.  Our relationships serve as our witness.  Other people hear the words of Christ, the rules we are supposed to live by, and they look to us to see if we do it, to see if it matters, to see if it changes anything to follow this Jesus guy. And if what they see is hypocrisy, judgment, anger, and sin, then theyre probably going to doubt Jesus and his power to do something good in our world.

            It matters how we live our lives.  We have to live what we believe.  And if we believe in Jesus as our Lord and Savior and if we believe that we are called to be like him, then we have to practice that in our daily living.  Now, we arent perfect. Weve said that.  We know that.  We are going to fall short. We are going to get it wrong. We will have our days when we dont look a whole lot like Jesus.  BUT, that doesnt mean we should give up on trying.  Living our faith matters.  

            If we think about the movie, we think about the guys at Shawshank prison, and what might we expect?each man for himself. Weve heard about the violence, the corruption, the insider rings that happen in prisons, and certainly when you watch the movie, youll see theres a healthy dose of that.  And yet, we also see something distinctively different in Andy Dufraine. Andy wants good things for the other guys in the prison. He spent 6 years writing letters to get money to fund a library. He helped 6 guys pass their high school equivalency test.  He helped the guards do their taxes and set up trusts for their kids.  His heart could have been hardened by prison or the abuses he endured, and yet generosity and kindness won out in Andys heart.  So, it hardly came as a surprise when Tommy Williams came and Andy offered to help him change from a life of crime, to something better.  Andy took the time to not just help Tommy pass his tests, but to teach him to reach starting with learning his letters.  He taught him to read. And he taught him his high school basics.  Tommy passed the test with a C+ average.  Hed been in and out of prison since he was 13, probably because he was illiterate and couldt hang with a school crowd, but Andy gave him the opportunity to change that, to have something different, to live a life worthy of his family, of something more. 
            In them, I see our callingto be like Christ and care about other people, to help them through hard circumstances, to be just and fair in our actions, to care and help them, even when we dont have to, and to give of ourselves for the benefit of others.  It matters how we live, not just for our sake, not just because we are supposed to, but because our actions have the potential to change the world, one person at a time.  
            I have another scene for us to watch, its Andy with his friend Red. Theyve been together at Shawshank for 10 years and learned to be there for each other.  Red had played the harmonica as a kid, but gave it up and certainly wasnt playing at Shawshank.  When Andy pressed him and asked why, Red said it wasnt worth it.  Andy contradicted him and said this is when its worth it the mostbecause it tells the prison that it cant have all of you, that there is a life beyond those wallsit gives you hope. 
            Lets watch. 
            These two men learned to share hope and life with each other.  They marked lifes momentseven if it was yet another rejection from the parole board, or a full decade of life in prison, but even if those arent milestones you might want, they were part of life inside and they learned to roll with it. 
            Andy Dufraine lived what he believed and in some ways it rubbed off on the other guys.  Now, he wasnt under the best of circumstances, things werent exactly going his wayhis wife cheated on him and was then murdered and he was convicted for it.he could have been consumed with anger and bitterness, but he chose not to be.  He chose something different.  That may not be our story, in fact its probably not, but we all have stuff that could harden and poison our hearts.  We have things that happen that spoil what we strive for and what we think we should have and we would be justified to be bitter about it, or we could leave the bitterness and keep focusing on who Jesus invites us to be.  We could be hope and life in our world, with each other. 
            It matters what we believe, but even more than that, it matters that we live what we believe.  If we believe in hope, we have to live hope. If we believe in forgiveness, we have to forgive. If we believe in second chances, we have to offer them, not just expect them for ourselves.  If we believe that following Jesus matters, then we have to act like it, we have to follow him and do what he asks, not just when its easy, not just when life is going our way, but as wholly and fully and often as we can. 

Sunday, December 8, 2013

Possibility and Hope--Ephesians 5





                            We are following a particular guide for our worship in advent and the scriptures are already decided.  I have to be honest, I read this text for this week and thought, “This is an Advent text?  This scripture about sin and disobedience and God’s wrath is good for Advent?!  And it was chosen for the week we focus on hope, really?!” 
                            So I reread the passage and I thought about the purpose of Advent.  This week, both the youth group and the Wednesday night Advent study examined the meaning and purpose of Advent.  And the thing we learned was that in the original Christmas traditions, Christmas day was not just to celebrate the birth of Christ that happened in the past.  It was also meant to open the door for his return.  Christians were eager for the 2nd coming of Christ and they anticipated that would happen at Christmas.  That meant that Advent was a time to prepare to meet Jesus face-to-face.  The preparations weren’t for trimming the tree or hanging the lights or wrapping the gifts.  The preparations were of one’s spirit and one’s actions to be ready to meet Christ. 
                            In that light and with that purpose for Advent—Ephesians 5 makes more sense as a choice.  If we are preparing to meet Jesus face to face then it makes sense that we would follow the instructions offered to the Ephesians.
·         We should follow God’s example, mimicking God like a child mimics their parents.  We should do as God does.
·         And we should follow Christ’s example and act with love.  We need to do all in our power to show God’s unconditional agape love. 
                            After encouraging us, reminding us, to become godly in our ways, we are reminded, with the Ephesians, of the things we should not be doing.  It’s not a hard list to compile. Any of us could do it.  Think about it, in becoming like Christ, what behaviors, habits and actions should we avoid?
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                            Exactly. The Ephesians were given similar advice:
·         No sexual immorality
·         No behavioral impurity
·         No greed
·         No obscenity
·         No foolish talk or coarse joking
·         Don’t get drunk. 
                            Why?  Because once we engage in a relationship with Christ, we know better.  Once we make Christ Lord of our lives, we become better.  So instead of old bad habits, we are called to do something different. 
                            If we aren’t lying, stealing, drinking, etc, etc, then what’s left?  What should we do?
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Exactly, the author points to similar things. 
·         Give thanks
·         Seek Christ
·         Make the most of life
·         Do the will of the Lord
·         Get together with others who seek God
o Sing
o Pray
o Enjoy one another
o Praise God
                            As Christians, we are called to live differently.  We are called to live and love as Christ loved.  We know that, right?  But sometimes, we need a reminder, don’t we?  There are some habits that we have justified for ourselves, and some old practices that we keep holding onto. 
                            In our studies this week, we were asked, “When in your day would you least like to have Jesus walk through the door?” (Repeat for emphasis) Ask yourself.  When? 
·         Would you be caught in a lie?
·         Or caught in anger?
·         Or caught in gossip?
·         Or caught lusting after porn?
·         Or caught in addiction?
·         Or caught in laziness?
·         Or caught in pride?
If Jesus walked in in that moment, what would be see? 
                            These are the areas of our life that need reformation—they need to be changed by grace and made holy. These are our hold outs. These are the spots we’ve been unwilling or unable to work on.  And Ephesians 5 comes in and says, “Hey, hey, hey, what are you doing?!  You know better than this!” 
                            It has language of wrath and rejectionand some of us may need that to jump start us to action. Fear may be our best motivator.  If it’s yours, here it is.  However, I don’t think fear is the heart of this message.  I think we’re supposed to hear something more like this:
                            “You’re better than this. You’re not this person anymore.  These bad habits should be left in the past—they are not worthy of your identity as a child of God.  So get rid of them.”   
                            But we fight that affirmation, don’t we?  We argue and say things like,
·         I’m not really that good.
·         I’m not smart enough, kind enough, or strong enough to be that much like Christ.
                            We stay stuck in the past or hold onto old habits because we are held by the LIE that we aren’t worthy—for whatever reason.  But you ARE worthy.  You are worthy of becoming and being all that God created you to be.  There is no reason to hold back.  There is a beautiful poem by Marianne Williamson called “Our Deepest Fear”. She says it this way:
Our Deepest Fear
By Marianne Williamson

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.
We ask ourselves,
 Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and fabulous?
Actually, who are you not to be?
You are a child of God.
Your playing small does not serve the world.
There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people will not feel insecure around you.
We are all meant to shine, as children do.
We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us.
It is not just in some of us;
it is in everyone and as we let our own light shine,
we unconsciously give others permission to do the same.
As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.

                The gift and possibility that we have is to be great as Christ was great.  This poem and the passage from Ephesians remind us that our future doesn’t lie in our weakness or our failings or our sins.  Our future lies in a promise of greatness.  We are called to be awesome and inspiring because of and through Christ.  It’s wholly appropriate that we are reminded of what we are pulled from and called to so that we might embrace all that Christ offers.  Advent reminds us to have hope.  We are to have hope in Christ, that we can find redemption and forgiveness and possibility.  But beyond that, we are called not just to rely on Christ but to become like Christ so that we might rely on one another as the embodiment of Christ.  In our hope, in our drive to be like Christ, we need to avoid the old sinful things that hold us back from greatness and instead cling to the things of God.  We should cling to compassion, cling to generosity, cling to forgiveness, cling to peace, and cling to joy.  We should cling to hope.  And so this Advent season, we hope, with expectancy and anticipation AND preparation for becoming like Christ so that we might encounter him in tangible and concrete ways. 
                Today’s “sense” is that of smell.  We are called to embrace the scents of Christmas and to breathe in hope.  So today you will receive a small satchel of potpourri as your reminder to breathe in and smell hope. In our time of prayer, you are invited to come forward to pray and repent and seek after Christ.  Satchels will be here at the altar rail and others will be passed through the pews.  Let us breathe deeply and smell hope.  Amen.